I am
currently reading “My Antonia” by Willa Cather. The book is about a boy
visiting his grandparents at their house on the Nebraska Prairie, where he meets
a Bohemian immigrant named Antonia. The book describes in depth both life on
the Prairie as well as the two children’s relationship to one another. I find
that the boy’s reaction when meeting Antonia is a smidge surprising, and unnatural
to a person like me, and I also think that the setting could be the cause of
this.
The boy,
Jimmy, does not seem frightened or nervous at all when meeting the Bohemian
family. He seems confident and willing to listen to the family. Coming from New
York, I would be a smidge shy, as many kids my age would, and I would also not
run off holding hands with one of the people I had just met and “snuggle” with
him/her at the edge of a cliff. Honestly, I find this a little straightforward
and imposing. I find myself quite quiet (if you can believe it) around
strangers, but especially foreigners. Once, my friend rented her house out to a
Scottish family, who my parents then decided to invite for brunch. The aspect I
found most threatening was how polite they were. People from not only Scotland,
but England as well are generally more polite than New Yorkers. One example of
their polite manner was when my mom asked the 5-year-old boy, Bruce, whether he
wanted some more orange juice. He replied in his adorable Scottish accent, “I
wouldn’t mind.” The way he said it was so polite, like someone would say at the
inaugural ball. Anyway, Jimmy was not shy at all, and I believe that he is a
very communicative person because he did not feel this way when meeting the
Bohemian family.
I think that
the setting is partly the cause of Jimmy’s straightforward manner. On the lone,
open prairie, a person could walk for miles without seeing another person or
house. Jimmy’s loneliness may have led to a desire to talk to someone other
than his grandparents. The same goes for Antonia. She is Bohemian, and most
likely is not used to prairie life. Both she and Jimmy probably got fed up with
their family and wanted a change. I feel this way with my room. Do you ever get
tired of the way your room looks and randomly move furniture around? It may sound
a little strange, but I do this every few months, depending on how neat the
change allows me to be. The point is that Jimmy and Antonia were bored with
seeing the same people each day because it is rare to see people out on the prairie,
so they did not feel shy at all when meeting each other. Because of my
experience with this, I understand how frustrating it is to see the same people
and the same furniture each day.
Antonia, in “My
Antonia” causes the main character, Jimmy, to respond to her in an
overly-confident manner. He, in my opinion, seems almost rude in the way he
acts. This is why people are shy: because they don’t want to seem to imposing
or act as if they have already met. There is a difference (obviously) between
rude and friendly, but in this case, it is almost hard to tell them apart.